Stuckness to Inspirationally Attuned

I am no stranger to overwhelm. Self-sabatoge could be my middle name. I notice a trend when it comes to having what I want and never have enough. There is always more, but lack can be confused for contentment in the here and now.

There are many ways to acknowledge our sense of stuckness. We can stuff it, avoid it, disregard it, fluff it, scrunch it, untie it, crumble it, spit it out on our friends, swallow it whole without chewing, or, of course the best and most favorite of all, just plain deny it without dressing or sauce. And the final solution works the best, since it does not leave us wanting what we don't already have. The former ones offer an echo that may be louder than you know how to manage, and that is a key impact of the overwhelming quality to being out of alignment with our secret sauce.

Truth #1: There are boxes that we do not fit inside, no matter how hard we try. I have tried and tried, and end up seeing myself as I look out the window, and am amazed that there is no mirror in sight! If you find yourself checking yourself out, you may be a victim of your own sauce, and allergic to what you are creating. You know you are living large if you just allow yourself to be, and don't have to find what's wrong with you before you meet the rest of the world!

Truth #2: There is such a thing as a leaky faucet. The faucet you are running might be leaking out sideways. Do you notice yourself telling a story that already happened? Or, are you speaking in possibility. How you know when you need a plumber, or to consider hiring a therapist who is not your friend: you talk about how good or bad it was as if one day, at band camp...

Truth #3: You are your best friend. We are not in 5th grade anymore. We can look around and try to depend on others, fall in love with our favorite blogger and develop an e-crush with would-be clients, and this is fun and all, but, there is no time to befriend yourself if you are sharing it all with others. PLus, the people may be so used to you helping them, that you and they both deny that you need anyone ever, and you are the last to remember that you are worth it!

Truth #4: You didn't deserve it and there is a solution. There is a spiritual solution to every problem, thanks to Wayne Dyer. Seriously. If you are masochistic in some regard with yourself, your work or your man, you really don't have to go there any longer. You can be here now, and keep listening to that precious seed inside of your heart that needs to be nourished with good thoughts, loving blessings, and feelings of juiciness and inspiration.

Truth #5: You rock. This is fundamental marketing info to stick in your pocket. If you are feeling sorry for yourself, you will not get over your feeling of overwhelm. The thoughts will lead you right back to square one. The behaviors will lead to the thoughts which will lead you to the feelings which cause you to shut down. Keep the faith and find reasons to love yourself up. This will impact your self concept extremely well.